I come to the conclusion when writing or blogging a thought or an idea to be honest. When I write my words are a result from something traumatic in my life. These moments are like reflections. Just like one would see a reflection in a mirror, words for a blogger/writer are just as such. I find myself staring more and more at my words which are very emotional, raw, powerful and sometimes painful. Sometimes these emotions can be very difficult to face. It’s especially difficult putting yourself out on social media where the trolls thrive. I often ask myself “is it worth the risk?”
“It’s not wise to be on social media when having an episode”
Too Much Noise
There’s too much noise on social media particularly Twitter. Twitter is a place where people dealing with mental illness or disorder uses to express themselves. It’s in our nature to give out advice whether that advice is wanted or not. We live in a time where its custom to share our every aspect of our lives. For someone who is dealing with mental illness or disorder our thought process isn’t always easily articulated in a way for those who don’t understand the difference between a person with mental illness is venting, ranting or crying out for help. In which case the intent is often lost.
“It is wise to learn the difference between, venting, ranting & cry for help”
I am a manic depressive. I refer to my disorder as my “Chum” because it’s a causal way of disarming people from judging. Usually when people see my Chum reference they offer up their experiences with dealing with mental disorder. When in the midst of a full-on breakdown that last thing, I want is advice on how to manage my episodes. The gesture of prayers are good, powerful but can be reckless. The reality is not all people share the same religious background. When offering up or expression such thoughtfulness, make sure the person is ready to receive. Sharing such thoughtfulness to someone who isn’t religious or share the same views can also be another trigger. Prayers isn’t a cure to mental illness or disorder.
Avenues For Derailing
There’s a few avenues I turn to when trying to derail my manic episode. Writing and Music. For some social media is their outlet. Don’t look at it as a cry for help. Before you comment, know the signs. Know the difference between venting, ranting and a cry for help. Expressing frustration is one way to help heal and cope with mental illness or disorder. When someone who has mental illness reach out via social media the best thing is to LISTEN. Don’t jump to conclusions and start calling the local police to do a wellness check. Don’t offer any words of encourage unless the person is willing to receive OR you have a personal relationship in which case giving advice, words of encouragement or even taking the necessary steps to help derail a manic episode is appreciated. Most people aren’t religious so offering up prayers or should I say referencing prayers will cure all isn’t very helpful. That kind of engaging can be dangerous. Just go with the notion, that if you don’t understand what a person is saying don’t response or don’t engage.
“Navigating the Darkness”
Nicole Carmen is a few blogger who struggles with mental illness. Her website “Navigating Darkness” follows her lifestyle as she copes with mental health. Nicole has been featured blogger, and she is also a publicized mental health advocated. If you have any questions, Nicole is happy to answer. Education is the best way to understand how people who suffers from mental health issues navigate through the dark. After reading this blog, I’m happy to answer any questions.
For more reads in my Confessions of a Depressive Mind Series try these…..
Repair My Armor
Crying In The Shadows
My Big Brother
Confessions of a Depressed Mind
Over The Hump
Welcome to the Dance
In the Trenches
Diary of a Manic Depressive
Chicken Soup for the Soul
The High Card
Closed for Business
Until next time……
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Thank you so much for sharing. For me, social media is my outlet because it’s the only place I can open up without feeling like I am being judged. Plus I love to give support to anyone in need as well.
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